Dating In Your 50s Easy For Men Not So Much For Women!

Lisa Copeland is known as the expert on over 50’s dating. To get your FREE Report, “5 Little Known Secrets To Find A Quality Man,” visit Once I learned the language that men speak and hear, my relationship with men changed for the better both in my love life and professionally. Having been spoon fed on fairy tales as a little girl can jade you to who a great guy might be- often giving you unrealistic expectations of who “Quality Men” really are. A big obstacle to finding love after 50 happens when you’re NOT putting yourself in places where you can be seen and found by available men on a DAILY BASIS! Men can’t find you when you’re hiding every night at home.

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At the time I was headstrong and eager to speed life up. Out of school only one year, I’d started an accountancy course. It’s probably no coincidence that I was also hunting for a mortgage at the same time and looking for a husband. The thought of living alone made me nervous, and setting up a home seemed the most practical way of avoiding this. After my mother’s death, my 61-year-old father married a young girl of 18.

Be patient (on dating apps).

Women with intentions of having children don’t want a man this old because he will be in his 60s when the child is a teenager. Younger women, let’s say in their 20s and up to mid 30s have zero interest in men that old. Women in their 40s are either going for men their age or taking advantage of their cougarness. Life gets really sad when you’re a male in your 50s. What you have written is the words that come from my heart, after 7 years of separation, I still can’t believe that I can open my heart to another man or have a feeling for. Because my ex was the only man in my life after my father.

Hey Howie, I am a woman in the same boat! I am 5 years widowed, but my sons are older. I have not had a problem finding men who want to have a serious, ongoing relationship with me.

Towards the end of last year, the ‘Believe’ songstress – who was initially married to Sonny Bono from 1964 until 1975 and has 54-year-old son Chaz with him whilst she also has P. If you are looking for a one-stop-shop to meet beautiful, smart, single women , then Match is the site for you. Not only is it jam-packed with attractive women…

We were friends so, I asked him what a guy like him would want to be with an old woman like me. His answer surprised me and creeped me out. He told me that as long as he could remember, he had always been attracted to much older woman that smoked cigarettes.

I guess it is a state of mind, you can be old at any age if you choose to. Anyway, I guess I am happy if most men in my age group decide to date down in age. It leaves more women available to me. I’m literally laughing as I read this. I am 51 and in the best shape of my life. My body is as toned as J-Lo’s, as I regularly dance, run and do Pilates.

The actor had to take a hiatus to deal with some personal health issues. Didn’t feel a connection with your date? Don’t waste your time—or theirs—by going on a second one. No matter what your age, there are plenty of fish in the sea, and there’s someone out there who you will find that connection with.

No, physical impossibility…….men want youth and beauty. All you old crows made your choices…. Your 60 and proud of dating women in their 20’s. Stop deluding yourself and complaing and do the hard work in life to make yourself attractive and happy person. These priorities are the wrong way around. Men may not be able to function, and women may not want to function.

Better to see if there’s a real connection before climbing into bed with someone, and before you do get a simple blood test to prove to your partner that you won’t bring them an unwanted disease. Kind of sad that both sides have negatively impacted how relationships between men and women go today, leaving many of us wanting the simpler things in life more than ever. How do you think older couples who’ve lasted 40, 50, 60 yrs have made it that far? I just read that article on Huff post. I am a woman of old fashioned values, and although I support women’s equality and the progression of women, I think some have taken it too far to where they no longer value men for what men can offer. It’s probably good that the Supreme Court has given it’s blessing to same-sex marriage, because if current trends continue, women seeking spouses may very well have to marry other women.

Finding a non-sexual partner seems to be less of a problem, a lot of nice men suffer from erectile dis-function and might welcome an older partner. They both felt an instant connection as soon as they swiped right for each other, but after just a couple of days of messaging each other and talking on the phone, the sparks they felt turned into love. The first date went from an instant connection to never a moment apart.

As I get really old I wonder what I am doing. I feel almost embarrassed by my choices in life. Don’t feel ready to brave the online dating scene?